As some of you may know, I have started talking to Ashley again. At some point in time, I just got over myself, and realized that I was just being mean for the sake of it. I knew that pushing her away and ignoring her was wrong, but after being betrayed, I just wanted to hurt someone and Ashley was the easiest person to lash out at. Yes, some of the things I do make no sense and are done purely out of spite.
A couple of days ago, I was arguing with Ashley over how she handled my actions and how I thought her actions exacerbated the situation. Her response to my actions is a really good case of what you should NOT do if I am lashing out at you.
AIM excerpt:
Ashley: why didn't you realize that you pushing me away worked?
Ashley: and that's why i stopped trying to talk to you...
Ashley: or nevermind
Ashley: maybe you did realize it
Muffinman: I just took the sign that since I was able to push you away so easily
Muffinman: that we were not very close
Muffinman: and you did not care as much as you said you di
Ashley: eh.. i just get really really hurt when i get pushed away
Ashley: sooo.. i don't want to try because i don't like getting hurt
Ashley: the less effort i put in, the less i'd be pushed away
So please, the next time you think I am pushing you away for no reason, realize it might just mean I need some sense knocked into me. Usually when I push people away, is when I need people the most.
-muffinman
2 COMMENTS:
yaa you gotta understand how normal people operate! hahahha jkjk. but im glad you guys are chill
These things happen. Do you think you were being immature about it? sometimes, you guys need time apart to reflect what you did.. and eventually get back into perspective and grab this friendship by it horns to work things out. (:
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